What is bwest course of action when wife you love forces a separation and then delays paperwork and settlement

She told me to move out with no warning in january then instructed a solicitor to start separation proceedings(she has no grounds for divorce) and has now delayed and messed me about constantly.I agreed to accept a settlement much lower than i am entitled to originally but now i want the full amount but am not going to divorce her as i still love her and i feel its what she wants me to do