Should I get a divorce or keep praying about it?

what are you whining about ,it happened before you married him and I guess before you even knew him ,so what is your problem ,you say you where 4 years single does that mean you been divorced and you thought he was a Virgin with an older ex girlfriend ,what you think most GF and BF do today hold hands , I think that is his business and maybe he is very disappointed that the Baby did not survive and is grieving and just the way I see it you are a very selfish and I guess very dominiring Person who gets into a huff if you do not get your own way . Show him some sympathy for the loss of his Baby .